Accept defeat and move on
There will come a time in every individual’s life when things dont go our way and this is ther reality of life.One of the most common occurrences is defeat,which comes in various situation in our daily and challenging undertakings and often causes anger,disappointment,depression,unhappiness and discomfort.
A real man man is one who can face up to his mistakes and learn something from them so that he never repeats them.One shouldnt be afraid to acknowledge defeat because an individual who has the ability to stand up tall and admit that he’s wrong or that he’s been bettered in some way is admired and regarded as a gentleman.Is it?This is becuase with the right attitude,even losing can make you a better person as the entire episode offers us an experience to learn from.
We spend our whole life building on a good character and this is not based on how we win every task we undertake but how we deal with losses and emerge stronger.
Dont dwell in your performance which wasnt the best,instead recognise your defeat.Congratulate the winner and move on with positive thoughts to recover from your setbacks quickly.Never hold grudges and take revenge because such thoughts are counterproductive and in fact they will affect your physique and aura.
Swallow your pride and ego and learn from your mistakes and turn your errors to your advantages.Every loss should be played back in your head again and again to determine exactly why you lost.in a defeated situation you often ask why it was him and not you who came out on top.Did he have something thats you didnt??
Many ppl turn to the Almighty when in crisis,not realising that they should have done it before so that they have the divine guidance and grace in undertaking challenge in life.The reality of life is there are super powers above us and all we have to do is give our best in all our undertakings and leave the rest to the unseen supremacy.
20th March 2008 Thursday still on??
April 27th, 2008 at 10:58 am
hurm….
August 27th, 2008 at 3:39 pm
since a long time didnt updated